The "Parent Project": A Cause for Concern in Lawrence County Indiana

Lawrance County Indiana  3/22/2024

The Lawrence County Probation Department's new program, "The Parent Project," raises serious concerns. While it's framed as a solution for parents of "strong-willed" children (ages 11-17), it unfairly targets families who may be dealing with a much more complex situation.

Criminalizing Disabilities:
The program's presence within the Probation Department suggests a troubling approach. It implies that a child's challenging behavior, which could stem from a disability, is a criminal justice issue. This can lead to further stigmatization and a lack of access to proper support for these families.

Focusing on Labels, Not Needs:
The program uses a vague term, "strong-willed," which can mask underlying issues. Children with undiagnosed ADHD, anxiety, or learning disabilities might exhibit behaviors misinterpreted as defiance.  This program doesn't address these potential root causes.

Limited Solutions:
Promising to "never argue" or solve complex issues like phone addiction with a one-size-fits-all program sets unrealistic expectations. Parents of children with disabilities often need a wider range of resources and specialized guidance.

What We Need Instead:
Support, Not Stigma: Focus on providing resources and support to families navigating challenging child behavior, not criminalizing it.

Early Intervention: Promote early diagnosis and access to mental health professionals and educational specialists.

Positive Strategies: Equip parents with positive reinforcement techniques and communication skills to build strong parent-child relationships.

Let's Not Criminalize Differences:
Children with disabilities are not problem children. Their behaviors may be a symptom of a deeper issue that requires understanding and support. We urge the Lawrence County Probation Department to reconsider the program's approach and work with local organizations to offer more comprehensive resources for families facing these challenges.

Remember:
There are many reasons a child might exhibit difficult behaviors. "The Parent Project" offers a limited solution that could exacerbate existing problems. Let's work towards creating a more supportive and inclusive environment for all children.